Have you dreamed to make it big in the future? And yet that little voice of self doubt in your head tells you that you won't make it? Don't be too hard on yourself. Don't give up on your dreams. Nothing is impossible.
Re-watched abtm with my cousins a few days ago. One of the main leads , ken chow , said this : " The war is inside of us we are our own enemy." this relates to the phrase ' Your greatest enemy is yourself '
The person that you need to beat and conquer will be yourself. We are always constantly fighting against ourselves. It's the inner struggle that nobody can see. The feeling of insecurity, incompetency and incapability. We are all afraid of failure , we fear rejection. That is the reason why we chose not to try certain things. We create excuses for ourselves , we influence ourselves to believe that 'we can't'. Yet the only way to win the inner battle is to overcome your fears. But some people over do it. They are afraid of admitting that they are wrong , they are afraid of admitting that they are incapable, so they come up with excuses to blame others. All they do is to blame it on others. They will never ever blame themselves for being incapable or ' not good enough '. They believe that they have tried their best but it's not recognised. So they end up making themselves the victim. At the end of the day they give up trying. And I came to a realisation that the 'they ' is just another 'me' .


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